Amanda.Fierce.Fit.
Monday, November 2, 2015
Taking the Leap: Reflections on Saying Goodbye to the Gym
Monday, October 19, 2015
That Time I Signed Up to Run 5 Miles...
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I had some doubt-talk last night where I was thinking, there is no way in hell I can do this, but then I just accepted that hey, I'm intimidated by this challenge but I also enjoy setting goals and I genuinely enjoy the process, so I know this will be fun and good for me mentally and physically.
Thursday, September 10, 2015
Amanda Fierce Fit on Facebook!
Obviously I'll be performing original raps about motherhood and fitness, but mostly I'm looking forward to providing fitness tips, recipes, spiritual encouragement, and sharing what works for me and what hasn't, and I'd love to hear from y'all as well; I am here to help. It's my vision that this will be a safe space for women to feel encouraged and empowered.
Additionally, I'm working as a Coach with Beachbody, which excites me because now I can coach women through proven, effective workouts at home, assist with choosing the appropriate nutrition program, and provide the support and encouragement that is critical to successful long-term weight loss. You can find my website at
I'd love it if you'd join me as we build a tribe of fierce, fit women!
Tuesday, June 3, 2014
Life With 3 Kids.
Organized is in parentheses because quite frankly, sometimes it's just chaos.
Motherhood has always been quite easy for me, and that's not bragging, it's just the truth. I found it comes very naturally and I truly enjoy it. When Troy, our oldest was born, there were moments that were really challenging, but we adjusted really quickly to life as parents. I do remember though, around the time Troy was four months old, Chad asked me what I wanted for my birthday and I was like, to go to a hotel room BY MYSELF and SLEEP. (In case you're wondering, that didn't happen.)
During my pregnancy with Archer I had times where I worried how it would be possible to love another child the way that I love Troy, but I found that loving Archer came naturally too. It's amazing to me how motherhood increases your heart's capacity to love. Adjusting to life with two children was honestly easier than going from none to one, so during my pregnancy with Rex I didn't think for a second that things might be different.
Let me tell you this, I was naive. So, so, so naive. I thought I'd spend my maternity leave baking fresh bread, and canning, and doing other little projects. (No, I'm not kidding.) Let's just say this, the only "little projects" I've completed since the birth of my third child have been getting really acquainted with the cast of Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta and watching the entire first season of Hit the Floor, another awesome VH1 creation. And napping. #Duh.
Rex is a dream baby. He sleeps at night, he only fusses when he's hungry or needs to be changed, and he is just precious to boot. Rex is easy. What's been difficult is having an almost two year old who literally gets into everything and never stops moving. I love his wild and free spirit; it's just much more difficult when I have to keep my eyes on an infant. I also have a 4 year old who's going on 20, and even though he is a huge help, he can be an instigator. If I hadn't discovered the wonders of baby wearing, my kids would probably still be eating microwave chicken nuggets for dinner every night.
Add to those things that I had another C-Section, we have next to no family nearby who can help us, and Chad's crazy work schedule over the past few weeks, and you have a recipe for difficulty. I only had a few (2) days after coming home from the hospital before I was home all day by myself with the boys. There was a lot of crying (me). I was totally overwhelmed and surprised.
I reminded myself that I was extremely hormonal, that I had just had major surgery, and that the way I was feeling was normal. I reminded myself of this frequently and slowly I started feeling like things were under control.
Within the last two weeks, I've started to feel like myself again, and less like a deer in headlights when Chad leaves to go to work. I've taken all three kids out by myself; Target was our first trip, obviously.
We have a new normal. And it's louder and messier than ever, but I love it.
xx,
Amanda
Thursday, April 17, 2014
5 Days and A Dream
I'm so grateful that I've had an easy, healthy pregnancy. I'm grateful for a practice of doctors who are progressive, friendly, and capable. I'm grateful to have employment at a company that has allowed me to earn enough PTO and SHCL to earn a paycheck while I'm out on maternity leave.I'm grateful for Troy who has been the best helper ever, always offering to rub lotion on my belly or rub my feet. I'm grateful for Archer's mischievous little grin that has made me laugh so many times this pregnancy, and his sweet little baby smell that still lingers and reminds me of what I have to look forward to all over again. I'm grateful for a husband who is my rock and has been so good about plying me with milkshakes or Blizzards from DQ when requested. I'm grateful for a group of women I consider my best friends, both near and far. I'm grateful for an aunt who has been like a mother to me. And I'm grateful for my mother, who despite her absence, is ever present and whom I credit much of what I know about being a mother to.
I've felt my mom's absence the most this pregnancy. There have been many more days this time around where I wished she was here, and when the actions of other people in our lives have reminded me of just what exactly my children, husband, and myself are missing out on by not having her here.
A few weeks ago I had a dream about her, which is a rare thing for me. Since her death eight years ago, I can count on one hand how many dreams I've had about her. The dreams are never about her, but I know she is present, and the second I acknowledge that she is there and acknowledge that it can't be real because she is dead, she disappears.
This dream was different. Chad and I are in the recovery room at the hospital, following the birth of this baby. I'm sitting up holding him, and in walks my mom, just the way she used to, smelling and looking the way she used to, like Elizabeth Arden Green Tear perfume and smiling and happy. I look directly at her and say, "You can't be here, you're dead. What are you doing here?" She responds "I"m just visiting."
And I think she was.
xx.
Amanda
Friday, April 11, 2014
Lessons in the Kitchen
One of my goals for the New Year was to bake more, and to include the boys (mostly Troy) in cooking and other kitchen projects. So far, it’s been going well, though we’ve mostly stuck to baking things like muffins and brownies.
Last Saturday I decided to branch out and make our own pizza dough for pizza night. Troy hopped up onto his little wooden stool and helped measure and knead the dough, excited at the chance to get messy and play with food. After the dough was properly mixed I explained to him that we now had to wait for it to rise, and he set the timer for 30 minutes.
I started to get nervous around the 15 minute mark, when the dough had not risen at all. When the timer went off, Troy excitedly ran to see the dough, only to discover that it looked absolutely the same as it had 30 minutes ago. I explained to him that it didn’t work, we looked up some troubleshooting options online, and set about making another batch, which didn’t rise either.
By this point it was almost 8 o’clock and everyone was hungry, dare I say, hangry! (Hungry+Angry) We decided to order a pizza instead, and Troy ran out with his daddy to pick it up and bring it home. We ate quietly, which in our household, is how you can tell that the food is good and the people are hungry. I think I was the only one disappointed that the dough didn’t turn out right.
Laying in bed that night I reflected on what might have gone wrong and on the experience as a whole. I decided that I was grateful that the dough didn’t rise. I was grateful to have the opportunity to show my son that sometimes, though you do everything right; things just don’t work out the way you want them to. I was grateful that I was able to show him that when things don’t turn out according to plan you just move on to the next plan, in this case, take out. It doesn’t mean you give up forever, just that sometimes it’s best to walk away and try again later.
As for us, we’ll be attempting pizza crust again this weekend.
Xo,
Amanda
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